You love your partner, but things have gotten out of hand lately. The misunderstandings, the heated arguments. You’re not even sure you know who they are anymore.

You wake up feeling trapped and at a loss for where to start improving the relationship. Some days you just want to avoid them altogether, and other days you deeply miss how you used to be loving and connected.

And, this is a pattern for you. Troubled relationships have been part of your past and you don’t understand why. They seem to go well in the beginning, but somehow you miss red flags that you wish you’d seen. Then you’re in too deep to get out, and you stay too long. The happiness is gone.

You see other happy, functional couples that laugh together and you wonder why you can’t get there in your own relationship. You start to wonder if you’re defective.

You’ve always been so calm and collected, but lately you’ve been the one acting irrationally.

You’ve tried self-help books, couples counseling, weekends away, saying things differently, not talking about hard stuff, learning better communication techniques, and avoiding conflict.

But, the only thing that works long term is healing the wounds that got you here. Troubled relationships come from attachment wounding in childhood. To heal, you have to look back, understand where your patterns came from, gain access to your true self, and begin operating in your relationships differently. I can help you get there.

We’ll take it step by step together. You’ll have all you need to heal: new tools, guidance, a roadmap to follow, someone to push you when you need it, and someone to hold space for you when it’s hard.

Get in touch, and let’s chat about how I can best help you.